These communities give peer advice on interpersonal situations. They are not counseling or crisis services, and replies can be wrong or incomplete. Follow each room’s format rules or the post is usually removed.
Where to ask
Best for: A specific situation in an ongoing romance, friendship, family or coworker relationship.
Why it fits: Its public description: “Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help!”
Members in our directory: 15.9M
Rules to know before posting:
- Posts need a title, description, TL;DR, and basic info such as ages and genders.
- Ask for specific advice on a specific, real situation between two or more people.
- No yes/no moral-judgment questions (for example “Am I the asshole?” style prompts).
- Do not message other users privately; keep advice in the thread.
- No situations involving people under 18.
Read r/relationship_advice’s current rules on Reddit
Best for: A concrete early-dating situation, not a long relationship or a culture-war debate.
Why it fits: Its public description: “this sub is for advice about specific dating situations not general debates. posts about relationships longer than 6 months post go to r/relationship_advice or if you are married post to r/marriage”
Members in our directory: 4.9M
Rules to know before posting:
- Ask about a specific dating situation; low-effort and off-topic posts are removed.
- No hate speech, personal attacks or harassment.
- No spam, advertising or soliciting DMs.
- Pickup-artist / red-pill / MGTOW language and gender-war generalizations are not allowed.
Read r/dating_advice’s current rules on Reddit
Before you post
- Put ages, genders and the length of the relationship near the top — both rooms expect context.
- Ask for advice on what to do next, not for a verdict on who is “right.”
- If anyone is in danger, contact local emergency or support services instead of waiting on a thread.
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Rule summaries are paraphrased from each community’s published rules (public archive copy retrieved 7 November 2026; original snapshot date unavailable). Current rules may differ — check the community’s rules before posting. A good fit does not guarantee a reply.