r/datingoverthirty (about 1.2M members, directory rank #903) is for people nearing or over 30 looking for dating advice. Broader dating rooms exist.
How to choose
Stay on datingoverthirty for age-relevant advice. Use dating for general dating discussion, dating_advice for a specific situation, and Tinder for that app.
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r/datingoverthirty
— Dating Over 30: Because dating is hard, no matter how old you are.
- Members: 1.2M
- Directory rank: #903
- 7-day growth: +715
A subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice.
Curated alternatives
/r/dating: vent, discuss, learn!
- Members: 6.3M
- Directory rank: #126
When to choose it: General dating discussion for any age.
Why it is here: Listed as related. Public description: the dating process and learning from others (about 6.3M members, rank #126).
How it differs from r/datingoverthirty: Any age versus over 30.
Dating Advice
- Members: 4.9M
- Directory rank: #186
When to choose it: Advice on a specific situation.
Why it is here: Listed as related. Public description: advice about specific dating situations (about 4.9M members, rank #186).
How it differs from r/datingoverthirty: Situation help versus age-focused.
Everything about Tinder
- Members: 6M
- Directory rank: #135
When to choose it: Your question is about the Tinder app.
Why it is here: Listed as related. Public description: the Tinder app, conversations and profiles (about 6.0M members, rank #135).
How it differs from r/datingoverthirty: One app versus age focus.
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