How the weddings communities compare
A few giants dominate — r/weddingplanning, r/wedding and r/Weddingsunder10k together account for 82% of the combined membership. r/weddingplanning is both the biggest and the busiest, with about 64 new posts a day. Per member, the liveliest is r/weddingdress: 23 posts a day from 128.2K members — a smaller crowd, but an engaged one. The oldest is r/wedding, founded in 2008, and every community here is more than five years old — this is a long-established corner of Reddit.
The 9 biggest weddings subreddits
- Wr/weddingplanning ↗ 1,592,093 members · ~64 posts/day · +1.1K since Oct 26 · since 2010
Discuss your personal wedding planning here! Please be sure to check out our rules.
- Wr/wedding ↗ 199,558 members · ~12 posts/day · since 2008
For those in the thick of wedding planning, we've got you :) Please read our new rules + FAQ!
- Wr/Weddingsunder10k ↗ 162,697 members · ~13 posts/day · since 2012
Due to inflation, we've adjusted the budget of this sub. This is a community for budgeting couples planning beautiful weddings with $20,000 or less. Share tips, ideas, and inspiration to make your big day unforgettable without br…
- Wr/weddingdress ↗ 128,179 members · ~23 posts/day · since 2011
Looking for the dress of your dreams? Or a dupe that you can actually afford? Need tips on alterations or styling? Or just wanna show us your amazing dress? You're in the right place! Please read the rules and pinned posts before…
- Wr/Weddingattireapproval ↗ 111,916 members · ~20 posts/day · since 2020
Where people come to ask if an outfit for an upcoming wedding is appropriate. Personal attacks will not be tolerated. Keep it about the clothing.
- Wr/WeddingPhotography ↗ 61,332 members · ~9.4 posts/day · since 2009
This is the home of the wedding photographer community on Reddit and the place for wedding photographers, second photographers, assistants, and those aspiring to be wedding photographers. This is a discussion based community and …
- Wr/weddingdrama ↗ 59,149 members · since 2017
Came across a wedding-flavoured drama here on Reddit or around the web? Recently attended a wedding where a huge drama went down? Or better (or worse?) it was at your own wedding?! Speak of this drama now or forever hold your pea…
- Dr/DIYweddings ↗ 45,961 members · ~4.6 posts/day · since 2013
Whether you are on a budget, or are just a craftaholic, find and share DIY wedding ideas here!
- Wr/weddingswap ↗ 26,980 members · ~2.6 posts/day · since 2013
Where wedding and receptions move on to the afterlife... Sell or swap your wedding-related decorations and extras with other brides and grooms.
Choosing where to post
For beginner questions, r/weddingdress is the natural first stop — it exists for advice, and roughly 23 new threads a day keep it moving. Asking the same thing in r/weddingplanning often gets it removed or lost among the 64 daily posts.
Before posting, sort a subreddit by “Top” for the past month: it shows in a minute what that community rewards. Always read the rules in the sidebar first — each community is run by its own volunteer moderators. Our guide to searching Reddit explains how to dig through any of these communities, and the subreddit info tool gives you the stats of one we don't list.
Frequently asked questions
Which weddings subreddit has the most members?
r/weddingplanning is the largest, with 1,592,093 members, followed by r/wedding (199.6K) and r/Weddingsunder10k (162.7K).
Where are the most new weddings posts?
By new posts per day, r/weddingplanning leads with about 64, ahead of r/weddingdress (23). Counts are averages over the last seven days.
Which weddings subreddit is best for questions?
r/weddingdress is the one built around questions and advice, with about 23 new posts a day. Check its rules and search it first — common questions have usually been answered.
How many weddings communities are on this list?
We list 9 active, safe-for-work weddings communities with at least 25,000 members each, 2.4M members in total (people can be in several). Reddit has many smaller ones too; our guide on searching Reddit shows how to find them.
What is the oldest weddings subreddit?
r/wedding, created on Apr 16, 2008.
Are these weddings subreddits safe for work?
Yes. Every community on this page is public and not marked 18+ by Reddit, and we filter out communities whose name or description points to adult content.
Data: Reddit's public subreddit search and the Arctic Shift archive (Nov 6, 2026), growth from SubMouse's weekly snapshots. Member counts of communities outside our Top 1000 come from the archive and can lag a little. Not affiliated with Reddit.