About r/weddingshaming
In its own words:
A place to shame wedding themes, brides, grooms, wedding party, in-laws, outlaws, guests, Uncle Bob, vendors... you name it, we shame it! Please read the sub rules before posting.
Community guide
r/weddingshaming (#989, about 1.1 million) is for calling out wedding themes, bridal-party behaviour, guests and vendors—wedding conduct, not body, age or appearance shaming, and not a place to ask whether you were wrong.
What belongs
Stories and examples (about 5 posts/day). Rules ban advice or judgement-call posts, weekday AITA crossposts (those only Friday through Sunday), update or episodic series, name-calling between users, uncensored identifying details, doxxing, appearance shaming, discriminatory language, brigading, politics, karma or content farming, and ads; discussion flair has to be used properly.
Versus weddingplanning and JUSTNOMIL
weddingplanning is for organizing a wedding. JUSTNOMIL overlaps on family conflict but is not wedding-specific. This room is shame-the-wedding-behaviour, with a ban on asking the crowd to pick a side.
Practical pointers
Censor names and faces; don’t ask “AITA?” except in the allowed weekend window.
The community was created on Aug 20, 2018, which makes it 8 years old. Since Oct 26, 2026, it has gained 1,059 subscribers (+0.10%). It sits just behind r/smoking (#988) and ahead of r/oilpainting (#991) in our ranking.
What sets r/weddingshaming apart
It is a discussion-heavy community, with about 68.7 comments per post over its lifetime versus a Top 100 median of 13.0. It is also one of the faster-growing big communities: its 1.09% gain since Sep 19, 2026 beats 94% of the Top 100.
Subscriber growth
Between Sep 19, 2026 and Nov 2, 2026, r/weddingshaming went up from 1,059,494 to 1,071,030 subscribers (+11.5K, +1.09%). That is about 262 new members per day. The chart shows 9 weekly subscriber counts.
What r/weddingshaming talks about
We read the titles of 24 recent posts (Oct 29–Nov 4), the words that come up most are “wedding”, “bride”, “married”, “friend” and “soon”. Other frequent themes are sister, hooking, video, notice, white and expensive. Recurring phrases include “married friend”. By format, 46% are text posts, 17% are images and 17% are links.
Popular post flairs: Discussion (5), Family Drama (3), Cringe (3), Dressed like a Bride (3), Horrible Vendors (2), AITA Crosspost (1).
Activity and best time to post
r/weddingshaming gets about 4.7 new posts a day. The public archive holds 18,096 posts and 1,243,552 comments in total, about 68.7 comments per post. Last week the busiest day was Tuesday (6 posts) and the quietest was Saturday (0). Posting peaks around 02:00 UTC and is lowest around 04:00 UTC.
Rules of r/weddingshaming
The moderators of r/weddingshaming list 14 rules. In short:
- All posts and comments must adhere to Reddiquette standards.
- No advice/judgement call/asking for opinions posts.
- AITA/AITAH crossposts on weekends only (F/Sa/Su).
- No update, episodic, part #, etc. posts including BestOfRedditorUpdates crossposts.
- No name calling or personal attacks against other sub users.
- Censor ALL identifying information.
- Doxing, or release of/request for personal information, is prohibited.
- Wedding shaming, not body/age/appearance shaming.
- No discriminatory language or hate speech.
- No brigading.
How to join
Open reddit.com/r/weddingshaming and press “Join”. Read the community rules in the sidebar before you post: every subreddit is run by its own volunteer moderators.
Frequently asked questions
How many members does r/weddingshaming have?
r/weddingshaming has 1,071,030 subscribers (Nov 2, 2026), which makes it the #989 safe-for-work subreddit in the SubMouse ranking. It added 11,536 members between Sep 19, 2026 and Nov 2, 2026.
When was r/weddingshaming created?
r/weddingshaming was created on Aug 20, 2018, so it has been around for 8 years. The oldest post in the public archive is from Aug 27, 2018.
Is r/weddingshaming still active?
Yes. r/weddingshaming gets about 4.7 new posts a day (average of the last four weeks). Over its lifetime the archive counts 18,096 posts and 1,243,552 comments.
What is the best time to post in r/weddingshaming?
Based on post counts from Oct 29, 2026 to Nov 4, 2026, the busiest day was Tuesday and the quietest Saturday, and most posts arrive around 02:00 UTC, with the fewest around 04:00 UTC. More posts also means more competition, so a quieter hour can help a post get noticed.
What kind of posts are on r/weddingshaming?
The community describes itself as: “A place to shame wedding themes, brides, grooms, wedding party, in-laws, outlaws, guests, Uncle Bob, vendors... you name it, we shame it! Please read the sub rules before posting.” Recent post titles often mention wedding, bride, married, friend and soon. Most posts are text posts (46%).
Is r/weddingshaming SFW?
Yes. Reddit does not mark r/weddingshaming as an 18+ (NSFW) community. SubMouse lists safe-for-work subreddits only.
What are the rules of r/weddingshaming?
Join the community on Reddit first, then use “Create post”. r/weddingshaming accepts both text and link posts, with images, videos and galleries enabled. It has 14 posted rules, starting with: “All posts and comments must adhere to Reddiquette standards.”; “No advice/judgement call/asking for opinions posts.”; “AITA/AITAH crossposts on weekends only (F/Sa/Su).”. Moderators remove posts that break the rules, so read them in the sidebar before posting.
What subreddits are similar to r/weddingshaming?
Communities with similar topics include r/weddingplanning (1.6M), r/terriblefacebookmemes (2.2M) and r/JUSTNOMIL (1.9M).
Stats from public data (data updated Nov 2, 2026; activity, rules and archive totals via the Arctic Shift archive, Nov 6, 2026). Point and comment counts are archive snapshots and can be lower than on Reddit today. SubMouse is an independent directory and is not affiliated with Reddit or the moderators of r/weddingshaming.