About r/relationship_advicePH
In its own words:
Need advice with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help. Get opinions from fellow Filipinos and understand your connections in a more Philippine context.
The community was created on Nov 16, 2020, which makes it 5 years old. Among the 7 communities on our relationships list it is number 4 by size.
What sets r/relationship_advicePH apart
Compared with other large communities, r/relationship_advicePH leans heavily on text posts (100% of recent posts; the typical Top 100 subreddit sits at 35%). People mostly look and upvote here rather than comment — about 1.4 comments per post, against 13.0 for a typical large subreddit.
All-time top posts
The highest-ranked posts in the history of r/relationship_advicePH, from 2023 to 2025, ranked by Reddit.
- My boyfriend (M28) only sees me as a copy of his favorite kpop idol from the popular group called Twiceu/Mission-Onion8503 · Mar 19, 2024 · text post
- i (25F) might breakup with my bf (28M) of two years because of a photo he posted with his girl best friendu/Dry-Association8058 · Feb 18, 2024 · text post
- I (35F) found out that he's (45M) a cheater. Ambushing him today at his place with the girlfriend (30F) of 10 years.u/mareiya · Jun 12, 2023 · 76 points · 78 comments · text post
- (34F) Trying to fix myself (and my relationship with 36M) — journaling, Nova Health, and reconnectingu/Kitchen_Tadpole_1262 · May 8, 2025 · text post
- I (F23) was drunk that night and asked my boyfriend (M28) if I was only temporary in his life and his answer was something I didn't expectu/No_Repair_674 · May 22, 2023 · 100 points · 13 comments · text post
- BF (M27) micro cheated on me (F22), got caught and asked for forgiveness but things are not the same anymoreMar 30, 2024 · text post
- (F30) Married and namimiss ko na yung feeling na maligawan, kiligin. Cheating is not and will NEVER be in my book.u/npcPlum · Nov 13, 2023 · text post
- Nandidiri ako sa bf ko for telling me na nag enjoy siya and ayaw niyang mawala yung fubu niyang lalake.u/Radiant_Fisherman524 · Jun 13, 2024 · text post
- I (27F) NBSB, wants to be in a relationship for the first time, gusto ko maranasan ma fall, gusto kong malaman ano yung feeling ng mga tanga sa pag ibig haha!u/tiredbagofflesh · Dec 31, 2023 · text post
- I (33F) thought that age and career gap won’t bother me until my boyfriend (27M) of 5 years is still financially unstable and I already want to settle. Pero mabait at pogi eh. 😅u/Ok_Guarantee_8057 · Jul 10, 2024 · text post
What r/relationship_advicePH talks about
Across 29 recent posts (Oct 31–Nov 7), the words that come up most are “girlfriend”, “relationship”, “24f”, “together” and “33f”. Other frequent themes are m29, video, ended, told, asking and boyfriend. Recurring phrases include “living together”, “inconsistent communication” and “29f love”. By format, 100% are text posts.
Popular post flairs: Romantic (10), LDR (4), Intimacy (2), Post-Breakup Blues (2), Financial (1), Friendship (1).
Activity and best time to post
r/relationship_advicePH gets about 5.3 new posts a day. The public archive holds 45,550 posts and 62,694 comments in total, about 1.4 comments per post. Last week the busiest day was Wednesday (5 posts) and the quietest was Thursday (0). Posting peaks around 03:00 UTC and is lowest around 01:00 UTC.
Rules of r/relationship_advicePH
The moderators of r/relationship_advicePH list 10 rules. In short:
- Avoid questions in the title; make it a summary of the post.
- Details to include.
- Specify the advice you need in your post.
- No name calling, insults, harassment, or threats
- Comments should stay on-topic. No low quality, non-contributing comments.
- No stereotyping of SOGIE, race, socioeconomic class, or other groups
- No doxxing
- No advertisement of external platforms
- No personal ads, classifieds, seeking, services, solicitations, crowdsourcing or surveys.
- Observe Reddiquette.
How to join
Open reddit.com/r/relationship_advicePH and press “Join”. Read the community rules in the sidebar before you post: every subreddit is run by its own volunteer moderators.
Frequently asked questions
How many members does r/relationship_advicePH have?
r/relationship_advicePH has 146,671 subscribers.
How old is r/relationship_advicePH?
r/relationship_advicePH was created on Nov 16, 2020, so it has been around for 5 years.
How active is r/relationship_advicePH?
Moderately: r/relationship_advicePH gets about 5.3 new posts a day (average of the last four weeks). Over its lifetime the archive counts 45,550 posts and 62,694 comments.
When is r/relationship_advicePH most active?
Based on post counts from Oct 31, 2026 to Nov 6, 2026, the busiest day was Wednesday and the quietest Thursday, and most posts arrive around 03:00 UTC, with the fewest around 01:00 UTC. More posts also means more competition, so a quieter hour can help a post get noticed.
What is r/relationship_advicePH about?
The community describes itself as: “Need advice with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help. Get opinions from fellow Filipinos and understand your connections in a more Phil…” Recent post titles often mention girlfriend, relationship, 24f, together and 33f. Most posts are text posts (100%).
Is r/relationship_advicePH safe for work?
Yes. Reddit does not mark r/relationship_advicePH as an 18+ (NSFW) community. SubMouse lists safe-for-work subreddits only.
How do I post on r/relationship_advicePH?
Join the community on Reddit first, then use “Create post”. r/relationship_advicePH accepts text posts only, with galleries enabled. It has 10 posted rules, starting with: “Avoid questions in the title; make it a summary of the post.”; “Details to include.”; “Specify the advice you need in your post.”. Moderators remove posts that break the rules, so read them in the sidebar before posting.
Which communities are like r/relationship_advicePH?
Communities with similar topics include r/relationships (3.8M) and r/relationship_advice (15.9M).
Stats from public data (data updated Nov 9, 2026; activity, rules and archive totals via the Arctic Shift archive, Nov 9, 2026; top posts from Reddit’s public feeds). Point and comment counts are archive snapshots and can be lower than on Reddit today. SubMouse is an independent directory and is not affiliated with Reddit or the moderators of r/relationship_advicePH.